Nice Guys vs. Tools - Who is the Winner in the End? - Day 2

So for those of you who have yet to be exposed to this experiment here is a brief synopsis of the events and hypothesis being tested:

Background:
Nice Guys Finish Last! I consider myself as being a nice guy, therefor I finish last.

(Click the following link for the full description and background: Nice Guys vs. Tools - Who is the Winner in the End?)

Hypothesis:
If being a nice guy repels girls from wanting to date you, then doing the opposite and acting like a jerk will attract girls.


Today's findings were even more conclusive then yesterdays. Granted my theory is flawed due to the fact that the variables in place are not as solidified as I would have wanted them to be; but they are there and I didn't foresee this turning out to be as legit as it has been.

Further explanation of the flawed variables:
Tested variables in Nice Guys

• Thoughtful
• Kind
• Helpful
• Patient
• Available

(The list could go on but I will stop here)

Tested variables in Jerks

• Careless
• Self Centered
• Arrogant

With the variables laid out, each day I am better able to hone my skills in the variables of Jerks. (Yes it takes time to become one, and yes it is an acquired skill.) For example, today I was able to better understand or implement the self centered and careless attributes of jerks. How? Well a Nice Guy is so used to asking others questions, and putting their needs first that it becomes habit. Just as that can become a habit so can arrogance, and not caring what others say.

This is the major reason the variables are flawed, they weren't black and white at the start of the experiment. It took time or takes time to ease into the characteristics.

Now this out of the way onto the day.

Day 2:
Today's results as previously mentioned were even more conclusive then the day prior. I won't go into extreme detail for fear of being punched in the face by one or more of the persons upon which this test is being performed. Suffices to say that only answering questions (not asking any), ignoring, and purposely waiting proves to be more provocative then waiting on others every word or move. (Now if you think you are part of this experiment you are wrong. I have not tested this on you at all. =) All extra evidences will be saved to the last day to be shared, if at all, for better results in the testing process.

What I would like to do now is address the comments made to the previous post:


Comment 1:

First off thank you for adding unknown evidence to the situation at hand by reminding me of my high school experience. Yes I am going there, but the evidences provided here are only being used to further the point that it is not just older girls but younger girls and ones of all ages.

"They may get the girl for a while but he will NEVER be able to keep her."

I was a nice guy all through high school, and did I ever have a girlfriend? The answer is No. Was I friends with all walks of life in high school? Yes, yes I was. Girls take that how you will, and no it doesn't mean you are fat. Please don't take it personal.

Moving on, why is this information important? Well its important because I dated a lot in high school, and was never able to get past a second/third date legitimately. Females were more than happy to ask for advise and hang out or whatever the "in thing" was but never willing to see me in a more romantic type of environment. I was labeled the safe bet or friend.

Here are the results from that time:
More than 15 of the relationships to which I was privy to help, ended up in marriage (that is still going today.) Why do I say more than 15? Its because those are the only ones of which I have heard. So does this evidence help to prove the theory? Of course it does!

"Now why do girls momentarily go for a jerk? That is because we mistake arrogance for confidence. We want men who are not afraid to be bold, ask us on dates, take the lead and take risks."

The funny thing about this comment is, it isn't directed to most nice guys at all. Most nice guys that I know, if not all do take bold moves and go on more dates then the Jerks and Tools. What the Tools and Jerks do is hang out, which is non-committal and against what the nice guys heard in a devotional some time. Now Brock that wasn't targeted at you, and again I am not calling you a tool!

Comment 2:

Yes Jesus does love me, and I love life. In no way is this experiment emotional, otherwise I wouldn't be blogging to the world about it. I think it is funny, and enjoyable.

Yes a lot of girls date tools, even the ones that are as deep as the ocean. Corny, yeah it was, but I don't care! You see that is some of the jerk habit setting in. Nice huh? As far as age, as previously stated, age doesn't matter. Once a female always a female, unless you get a sex change, and I highly censure that!

As far as the wrong crowd of girls, I consider myself a rather friendly person and have continued my practices of high school in which I seek to befriend all walks of life.

"Oh... and you ARE a good friend so maybe girls don't want to jeopardize that friendship by dating you and risking losing it."

This was an amazing support to my hypothesis, and if I was to rewrite my hypothesis, this would most definitely be part of it!

Day 1:

Day 3:

Day 4:  MIA

Day 5:

Normal Day? You be the judge, but its normal for me!

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